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Living With Others

You and Your Roommate

Living in a residential community, and more specifically with a roommate, will provide you with opportunities to develop interpersonally and to learn about yourself and others. You are embarking on a journey that will at times frustrate and at other times stimulate you. You will be challenged to grow and develop in ways you may not anticipate right now. This section is intended to provide you with some food for thought, i.e., what to expect, including some situations that normally occur while living on campus. Suggestions for resolving some of the conflicts that may arise are offered along with ideas for making your residential experience both enjoyable and educational. 

Cooperation is the realization that you and your roommate are in this together. This requires an honest attempt to make the relationship work. Cooperation encourages mutual satisfaction rather than win-lose outcomes. Compromise does not necessarily mean accepting something less than satisfactory. Living with another person challenges your creativity and problem-solving skills to find ways in which there can be two winners. 

Conflict Resolution

Getting Help

Your Resident Assistant (RA) can be a valuable resource for advice in resolving conflicts should they arise. Your RA can be objective about the problem and offer another perspective. They are also trained in conflict mediation and can help facilitate a discussion between you and your roommate if necessary.