Within the first 24-48 hours, periods
of appropriate physical exercise, alternated with relaxation
will alleviate some of the physical reactions.
Structure your time; keep busy.
You are normal and having normal
reactions; don’t label yourself crazy.
Talk to people; talk is the most
healing medicine.
Beware of numbing the pain with overuse
of drugs or alcohol; you don't need to complicate
this with substances.
Reach out; people do care.
Maintain as normal a schedule as
possible.
Spend time with others.
Help your peers as much as possible
by sharing feelings and checking out how they are
doing.
Give yourself permission to feel
rotten and share your feelings with others.
Keep a journal; write your way through
those sleepless hours.
If there is media coverage, limit
your exposure.
Do things that feel good to you.
Realize those around you are under
stress.
Don't make big life changes.
Do make as many daily decisions as
possible which give you a feeling of control over
your life (i.e., if someone asks you what you want
to eat, answer them, even if you are not sure).
Get plenty of rest.
Don't try and fight reoccurring thoughts,
dreams or flashbacks--they are normal and will decrease
with time and become less painful.
Eat well-balanced and regular meals
(even if you don't feel like it).
Things
your friends and family can do to help you
Listen carefully.
Spent time with the traumatized person.
Offer your assistance and listening ear if they have
not asked for help.
Reassure them that they are safe.
Help them with everyday tasks like cleaning cooking,
caring for the family, minding children, etc.
Give them some private time.
Don't take their anger or other feelings personally.
Don't tell them that they are "lucky it wasn't
worse;" a traumatized person is not consoled
by those statements. Instead, tell them that you are
sorry such an event has occurred and you want to understand
and assist them.
(Adapted with permission from the CISM Information
Pamphlet of the International Critical Incident Stress
Foundation, Inc.)
The information above, Critical Incident Stress Reaction,
can be downloaded as a PDF.
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